By Lizzie Hopkinson
One of my favorite quotes is a Hemingway quote: “we are all broken, it’s how the light gets in.”
When we experience setbacks we can feel as though everything that we have worked towards and built up was all pointless. But often setbacks show us where we have gone awry in our building up. Often the foundations are simply not good enough to support the work as we move forwards and the cracks start to appear.
Sometimes you need those cracks to appear to show you where the problems are so that you can address them and move on in a stronger fashion.
For example many horses struggle to stand still at the end of a rope quietly in their own space. You might not think this matters, you never need your horse to do this, but so many problems that we experience with our horses come back to this basic skill.
Many loading problems are not loading problems, but are simply groundwork or handling problems. Often by breaking the problem back down into its foundations we can resolve it at a basic level before moving forwards again.
So if something is going wrong as you try and ask more, such as moving up a height in jumping, or trying to work up a level in dressage, don’t regard it as failure. See it, rather, as an opportunity to take your training back down to the basics and see where the problem lies. It is easier at the lower levels to work round problems rather than resolve them. But problems, like molehills, have a habit of popping up again at inconvenient times.
So the next time you begin to struggle, go back to basics. Can your horse stand in his own space? Can you get on without him moving? Can you move one leg at a time? Keep working through the basics and you will find the weakness in your foundations. Fix that, and you will fix the problem higher up.